Life needs to be smooth. So is listening to music.

I'm not a person who plays with his phone during driving.  When I hear the incoming email or SMS sound, I don't even look at my phone until I'm at the work or back at home. 

However, almost everytime I get in the car, couple of minutes later right in the middle of the traffic I notice that spotify doesn't work properly and music is either problematic or doesn't play at all and I need to find my phone and unlock it and find the spotify app and click it and then click on the annoying BMW safety notice popup. This is like a psychological torture I keep fighting myself and I give up and end up doing the same because MUSIC DOESNT WORK.

Today I was about to hit someone while doing that!!!

How can I disable this annoying popup? Do I need to kill someone before that is fixed? If I'm using it at my own risk, why can't I disable it!

I'm going to make an accident because of this!!!

Device

(iPhone XS)

Operating System

(iOS 12.1)